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positive thinking - negative thinking - right thinking

      POSITIVE THINKING - NEGATIVE THINKING - RIGHT THINKING     T he starting point of making permanent and lasting changes in your life begins with understanding the difference between “positive” thinking, “negative” thinking and “right” thinking.       Think of the person who sits down to play the piano. As he plays, there is no harmony, no balance and no real tune because he keeps hitting all the wrong notes. The player eventually gets fed up with the disharmony, lack of pleasure and lack of enjoyment in his music and decides to go a teacher. The teacher says, "You have the ability to play, but you need to understand music."      Each one of us has the ability to play the game of life with balance, harmony and joy, but we need to know the rules and the principles.      Life works according to principle and physical law. If it didn't, you c...

***MOMENTS***

M O M E N T S L L ife moves on, whether we act as cowards or heroes. Everything we shut our eyes to, everything we run away from, everything we deny, denigrate or despise, all this things serves to defeat us in the end.           What seems nasty, painful, evil, can become a source of beauty, joy and strength if faced with an open mind.                   Every moment is a golden one for him who has the vision to recognize it as such.                           *                                 *                                        *                  

You are valuable

 YOU ARE VALUABLE     See i tell, people are discouragers. Someone walked up to my friend some hours ago and said to his face, "your eyes are swollen" really?, I had to look at my friend again but i didn't see his swollen eyes... There was nothing bulging out! and immediately i told the fellow , "No, that's a lie, you must have seen something else".     We all have such people around us, In our lives, In our schools, In our work places, who no matter how good of a day you're having, they will bring you down, and no matter how bad of a day you're having , they'll bring you even lower.     Don't listen to those voices, don't give in to opinions about how you suck or  not attractive enough. People may tell you that you don't measure up. Let it go in one ear and out the other.   "NO ONE CAN LESSEN YOUR SELF WORTH".  "YOU  ARE VALUABLE." 

WE ALL GET SO CAUGHT UP IN THE MOMENT

             CAUGHT UP IN THE MOMENT                 When we do something overtime, we become so much soaked in and glued to it. It leaves some emotional and routine deposits in us that doing something else is scary. Its so hard to hit the reset button and get pulled away from all that.     LIFE  IS WORTH LIVING IF WE DON’T EXPLORE AND GO SEE HOW BEAUTIFUL THE WORLD IS.

STOP COMPLAINING

     COMPLAINTS            The moment i realized nobody was actually listening to my complaints & excuses, i started putting my energy elsewhere. I started doing things to improve and change my situation and thus is so true, everyone you see, be it in the office, at school, church, on the street or anywhere has their own shit bothering them, they have their own worries and they have bills to pay ,......... ;         " So STOP COMPLAINING , START WORKTO MAKE CHANGE!!! "

PURPOSE

WHY ARE YOU HERE?                  The founder of LOGOTHERAPHY -viktor Emil Frankl, once said; "Ever more people today have the means to live but no meaning to live for. " Why are you where you are presently?  Why are you educated?  Why are you reading this?  Why am I writing this? -I would like to answer the latter, am of the opinion and thought that we are all here for a purpose of which we definitely must find out, we are here to find out and fulfill the reason for which we are here. Life throws so many things at us, they all build up to become our experiences and even at that we all constantly have the sign of our potential, we have the best of our abilities embedded in us in which the random things thrown at us are meant to help dig out our potentials. Our purpose of existence comes bit by bit and could be confusing if we don't understand ourselves. Life is like going to a mall to shop for a dress, not all wou...

life questions

LIFE QUESTIONS         * WHO AM I?       * WHO ARE YOU? life is complex, mixed and comes in different forms, be it joy, sorrow, anger, love-name it, it's still life. But irrespective of the form it may appear, we need to frequently ask ourselves, I mean the "YOU" that you would see when you stand in front of a mirror, not the you that is nurtured in your fantasies and depth of thoughts.  How would it sound if you are asked to introduce yourself? Believe me, there is always that ting of embarrassment and awkwardness that begins your reply to such question. But it's always good to ask yourself that question before anybody beats you to it.  You are more than the eyes could see, you are more than words could describe and only YOU can define YOU. It is only when you know yourself that much, that you can define who you want to be. We can only change what we know so much about.  Every time you stand in front of that lifeless reflect...