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WINNING WITH PEOPLE                 The third kind of relationship is ongoing and permanent. And if we want to keep them healthy and encourage them to grow,   we must give them continual cultivation otherwise they are likely to shrivel and die.       The most important relationship anyone has in this world is the one with a spouse. Men and women are so different that it's not always easy to cultivate a really good relationship. I recently came across a humorous piece that pokes fun at the differences between the gardens.      - A successful man is one can make more money than his wife can spend; a successful woman is one who can find such a man.      -A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband; a man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.       -Married men live longer than single men, but married men are lot more willing to die.      -There are two times when a man doesn't understand a woman: before marriage and after.

5 WAYS TO BUILD UNSHAKABLE CONFIDENCE Let’s face it, to close that deal?  To roll up on that lady at the bar, To perform highly at anything. Confidence is Key. Without that skill, we are useless. It is the belief you have in yourself that you can do anything. And I call it skill because I believe it can be trained and I will show you 10 ways to build Self Confidence. As a kid I struggled with low Self Esteem which made me hostile and unhappy. I was not the tallest dude in class then, I couldn’t express myself or speak good grammar, but all this experience made me strong. And below is a list of stuff that’s worked for me you can adopt. I want you to know that you are awesome and that you measure up. Maybe you need to close this page now and go look yourself in the mirror to see what I’m talking about. Wow, you did that? Great Now let’s get into it. (1). Understand Who You Are Self-awareness is really a hard topic to discuss especially now that we have a world trying to tel

      POSITIVE THINKING - NEGATIVE THINKING - RIGHT THINKING     T he starting point of making permanent and lasting changes in your life begins with understanding the difference between “positive” thinking, “negative” thinking and “right” thinking.       Think of the person who sits down to play the piano. As he plays, there is no harmony, no balance and no real tune because he keeps hitting all the wrong notes. The player eventually gets fed up with the disharmony, lack of pleasure and lack of enjoyment in his music and decides to go a teacher. The teacher says, "You have the ability to play, but you need to understand music."      Each one of us has the ability to play the game of life with balance, harmony and joy, but we need to know the rules and the principles.      Life works according to principle and physical law. If it didn't, you couldn't fly an airplane, because there would be no gravity, there would be no s

M O M E N T S L L ife moves on, whether we act as cowards or heroes. Everything we shut our eyes to, everything we run away from, everything we deny, denigrate or despise, all this things serves to defeat us in the end.           What seems nasty, painful, evil, can become a source of beauty, joy and strength if faced with an open mind.                   Every moment is a golden one for him who has the vision to recognize it as such.                           *                                 *                                        *                  

 YOU ARE VALUABLE     See i tell, people are discouragers. Someone walked up to my friend some hours ago and said to his face, "your eyes are swollen" really?, I had to look at my friend again but i didn't see his swollen eyes... There was nothing bulging out! and immediately i told the fellow , "No, that's a lie, you must have seen something else".     We all have such people around us, In our lives, In our schools, In our work places, who no matter how good of a day you're having, they will bring you down, and no matter how bad of a day you're having , they'll bring you even lower.     Don't listen to those voices, don't give in to opinions about how you suck or  not attractive enough. People may tell you that you don't measure up. Let it go in one ear and out the other.   "NO ONE CAN LESSEN YOUR SELF WORTH".  "YOU  ARE VALUABLE." 

             CAUGHT UP IN THE MOMENT                 When we do something overtime, we become so much soaked in and glued to it. It leaves some emotional and routine deposits in us that doing something else is scary. Its so hard to hit the reset button and get pulled away from all that.     LIFE  IS WORTH LIVING IF WE DON’T EXPLORE AND GO SEE HOW BEAUTIFUL THE WORLD IS.