HALLOGENPICKS

LOVE, BELIEVE AND LIVE     It's very important to be who you are and to never waver on your beliefs.    Just because others are telling you how to live your life doesn't mean you should conform to them. They might not like the things you do or how you live your life but at the end of the dates long as you love who you are and who you're becoming, everything else can take a back seat. Love yourself, Believe in Yourself and Live boldly .

WINNING WITH PEOPLE                 The third kind of relationship is ongoing and permanent. And if we want to keep them healthy and encourage them to grow,   we must give them continual cultivation otherwise they are likely to shrivel and die.       The most important relationship anyone has in this world is the one with a spouse. Men and women are so different that it's not always easy to cultivate a really good relationship. I recently came across a humorous piece that pokes fun at the differences between the gardens.      - A successful man is one can make more money than his wife can spend; a successful woman is one who can find such a man.      -A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband; a man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.       -Married men live longer than single men, but married men are lot more willing to die.      -There are two times when a man doesn't understand a woman: before marriage and after.

5 WAYS TO BUILD UNSHAKABLE CONFIDENCE Let’s face it, to close that deal?  To roll up on that lady at the bar, To perform highly at anything. Confidence is Key. Without that skill, we are useless. It is the belief you have in yourself that you can do anything. And I call it skill because I believe it can be trained and I will show you 10 ways to build Self Confidence. As a kid I struggled with low Self Esteem which made me hostile and unhappy. I was not the tallest dude in class then, I couldn’t express myself or speak good grammar, but all this experience made me strong. And below is a list of stuff that’s worked for me you can adopt. I want you to know that you are awesome and that you measure up. Maybe you need to close this page now and go look yourself in the mirror to see what I’m talking about. Wow, you did that? Great Now let’s get into it. (1). Understand Who You Are Self-awareness is really a hard topic to discuss especially now that we have a world trying to tel

      POSITIVE THINKING - NEGATIVE THINKING - RIGHT THINKING     T he starting point of making permanent and lasting changes in your life begins with understanding the difference between “positive” thinking, “negative” thinking and “right” thinking.       Think of the person who sits down to play the piano. As he plays, there is no harmony, no balance and no real tune because he keeps hitting all the wrong notes. The player eventually gets fed up with the disharmony, lack of pleasure and lack of enjoyment in his music and decides to go a teacher. The teacher says, "You have the ability to play, but you need to understand music."      Each one of us has the ability to play the game of life with balance, harmony and joy, but we need to know the rules and the principles.      Life works according to principle and physical law. If it didn't, you couldn't fly an airplane, because there would be no gravity, there would be no s

M O M E N T S L L ife moves on, whether we act as cowards or heroes. Everything we shut our eyes to, everything we run away from, everything we deny, denigrate or despise, all this things serves to defeat us in the end.           What seems nasty, painful, evil, can become a source of beauty, joy and strength if faced with an open mind.                   Every moment is a golden one for him who has the vision to recognize it as such.                           *                                 *                                        *                  

 YOU ARE VALUABLE     See i tell, people are discouragers. Someone walked up to my friend some hours ago and said to his face, "your eyes are swollen" really?, I had to look at my friend again but i didn't see his swollen eyes... There was nothing bulging out! and immediately i told the fellow , "No, that's a lie, you must have seen something else".     We all have such people around us, In our lives, In our schools, In our work places, who no matter how good of a day you're having, they will bring you down, and no matter how bad of a day you're having , they'll bring you even lower.     Don't listen to those voices, don't give in to opinions about how you suck or  not attractive enough. People may tell you that you don't measure up. Let it go in one ear and out the other.   "NO ONE CAN LESSEN YOUR SELF WORTH".  "YOU  ARE VALUABLE." 

             CAUGHT UP IN THE MOMENT                 When we do something overtime, we become so much soaked in and glued to it. It leaves some emotional and routine deposits in us that doing something else is scary. Its so hard to hit the reset button and get pulled away from all that.     LIFE  IS WORTH LIVING IF WE DON’T EXPLORE AND GO SEE HOW BEAUTIFUL THE WORLD IS.

     COMPLAINTS            The moment i realized nobody was actually listening to my complaints & excuses, i started putting my energy elsewhere. I started doing things to improve and change my situation and thus is so true, everyone you see, be it in the office, at school, church, on the street or anywhere has their own shit bothering them, they have their own worries and they have bills to pay ,......... ;         " So STOP COMPLAINING , START WORKTO MAKE CHANGE!!! "

WHY ARE YOU HERE?                  The founder of LOGOTHERAPHY -viktor Emil Frankl, once said; "Ever more people today have the means to live but no meaning to live for. " Why are you where you are presently?  Why are you educated?  Why are you reading this?  Why am I writing this? -I would like to answer the latter, am of the opinion and thought that we are all here for a purpose of which we definitely must find out, we are here to find out and fulfill the reason for which we are here. Life throws so many things at us, they all build up to become our experiences and even at that we all constantly have the sign of our potential, we have the best of our abilities embedded in us in which the random things thrown at us are meant to help dig out our potentials. Our purpose of existence comes bit by bit and could be confusing if we don't understand ourselves. Life is like going to a mall to shop for a dress, not all would suit you, not all would fit your expectati

LIFE QUESTIONS         * WHO AM I?       * WHO ARE YOU? life is complex, mixed and comes in different forms, be it joy, sorrow, anger, love-name it, it's still life. But irrespective of the form it may appear, we need to frequently ask ourselves, I mean the "YOU" that you would see when you stand in front of a mirror, not the you that is nurtured in your fantasies and depth of thoughts.  How would it sound if you are asked to introduce yourself? Believe me, there is always that ting of embarrassment and awkwardness that begins your reply to such question. But it's always good to ask yourself that question before anybody beats you to it.  You are more than the eyes could see, you are more than words could describe and only YOU can define YOU. It is only when you know yourself that much, that you can define who you want to be. We can only change what we know so much about.  Every time you stand in front of that lifeless reflective mirror-what does it tell yo

    Me And Success                   My success in my fashion style is  the fact i have peace of mind, which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing i am myslelf and i made the effort to become the best that i am  capable of . How You Can Be Successful   1.Be ready to Take risks 2.Be focused on your goals and make your life goal. 3.Imagine and visualize yourself in the outfit before wearing it. 4.Be yourself. Ig: iam_Nnapy

     TECHNIQUES  FOR  IMPRINTING Deciding  to  change  a habit,  attitude or  personal  situation  does not  automatically  bring  about  the  change desired.  The decision  to  make the  change  is  only  the  first  step.  Further action  is  required  in  order  to effect  a  change  in  your  subconscious  self-image.  We  have  learned  that your  goal  is  the  mental  picture  of  what  you want.  When  you write down the  goal,  it  becomes  an  affirmation. The  process  of  doing  this  is  called “Imprinting”.  Imprinting  is  the deliberate control  of  thoughts  and  pictures  of  the  kind  of  changes  we want  to  make.  The  imprinting  occurs  when  our  subconscious  mind accepts  the  new  visual  image  of  the  end  result. Imprinting is  a  three-step  process: 1.  You affirm  your  goal. 2.  You picture  the  end  result. 3.  You  feel  the emotion  that  goes  along  with  accomplishing  the goal.

                          WHAT  ARE  YOU TELLING  YOURSELF?           It  is  a  demonstrated  fact  of  life  that  you and  I  do  not  behave  in accordance  with  the  reality  of  what  we  can  do  but  in  accordance  with the  reality  of  what  we  believe  we  can do.  It  stands  to  reason  if  we change  the  way  we  believe  we  can  change  the  way  we  act.

          Take one minute and think of all the things in your life you are grateful for. . Focus on them. . Visualize them. . Feel them. . Genuinely think how fortunate you are to be you...and have the life you have. . NOW... . At the same exact time as you are feeling, visualizing & experiencing all that you are grateful for...try and be in a bad mood...try and feel bitter...try and be angry about your life. . Its impossible. . Understand that the more gratitude you feel the less negativity you feel. . The less negativity you feel...the less doubt & anxiety you have. . The less doubt & anxiety you have...the more positive energy you have available to focus on productive thoughts and ACTIONS. . Productive thoughts and actions are what create your ultimate life. . What are 3 things you are grateful for? . Always show GRATITUDES for who you are and for the people God has placed around you. Ig:makinwa__

             Our  level  of  expectation,  whether  it’s  of  ourselves,  another person,  a  day,  a  task  or  a situation,  determines  the  outcome.         Once  we lock  onto  a  preconceived  notion of  how  we think  things  are  going  to work  out,  we then  go  out  and  create  the  situation  or  gather  information to  make  it  a  reality  -  and  sure enough,  we  get  what  we expect.  This  is called  the Sure-Enough Principle.  You  can  see  that  your  self-talk  either reinforces  an  already  existing  self-image  or  belief,  or  it  can  be  used  to modify  for  better  or  worse,  opinions  and attitudes  that  you have about yourself.